Hello!
I want to know what kind of RP you like. There are players who only play with people they know, others are looking for publicly accessible RP. Some like to play slice of life, others like adventures or (planned/guided) plots. Some like to be a game master in a plot, others not at all. And some characters seem to be at home in every tavern. And that is certainly only the tip of the iceberg. Tell me a bit about your preferences.
I'll start right away and have to admit that I'm leaning a bit in all directions.
Basically, I like to have a reasonably fixed RP group around me (can be within a guild or a project, but doesn't have to be), but it should still be accessible to outsiders. Every now and then I also like to play with just one other person or a smaller group, as this gives everyone more opportunities to develop in the RP.
Character development is close to my heart, so I find a good mix of slice of life and adventures/plots important, because if you're just rushing from one adventure to the next, there's sometimes not enough time to internalise what's happening. But you also need these experiences to have something to talk about in everyday RP.
Huge events, on the other hand, are less my thing. Depending on how good/comfortable the chat is in the game, there is simply a certain limit beyond which it can become exhausting to follow what is happening or to hear when you are spoken to. Every now and then I take part in big events and it's also fun. But (as a player) it is usually not relaxing.
Greetings Kinman